Dealing with heartaches
Posted by maj on Wednesday Apr 9, 2008 Under GeneralWhen I first had my heartache, I used to like the song “You made me stronger” by Regine Velasquez. I love the lines, you made me stronger by breaking my heart, you ended my life and made a better one start… isn’t its great, and I keep on thinking about the song whenever I feel down or whenever I grieve… and one thing I make sure when I am low because of “love” is never to ask for other’s opinion or advice on what to do… coz I believe that would only make the situation in me worse.
I cannot understand why there are people who cannot manage their heartaches; they don’t believe that it would just pass, and that even without so much effort they’ll get over it soon. It hurts, yes, it sucks actually, but the more you harbor the bad feelings, the more it would linger and mess with your life.
Its easy to say, move on and get a life… but that’s the hardest part… dealing with it is the hardest and the most difficult… when someone goes, a better one is coming… hopefully… no regrets, remain friends, and free yourselves… not that easy.
August 15th, 2008 at 2:11 pm
it’s true that no one can effectively lessen one’s heartache, nor help you get out of the cocoon of pain and missery when you’re hurt by the love you have/had. it’s you yourself to extinguish the burning pain. maybe some friends can ease a little of it but the innermost one will remain unless you injected that pain-reliever or tranquilizer into your heart.
you have a very good disposition in life..i can say that you are a very intelligent person.
i can’t help giving my comment…i want to add pa pala…former lovers must not be friends anymore..or not that too close and intimate for that will lead to another thing…
take care…
sonny sadia
August 17th, 2008 at 2:44 pm
hi sonny! tnx for droppin by, and for the flattering comments.. yes, ex-lovers can be friends, but shoudnt be intimate anymore =D